Greetings Creatives,
How to notice?
Funny, as I wrote that last line I wonder if I should put a question mark on it.
Regardless, the shapes of relationships are constantly on my mind right now.
I am a teacher and I support students and we are in virtual classrooms during the day, but what that means feels so loose.
Not being around people, or not accidentally bumping into people, or not seeing that dude around 8:15 AM every day having a smoke out on his front porch because life is not scheduled anymore is really squashing me.
My commute is now measured in flights of stairs or the distance between keyboard and kitchen. And what I want most right now is to see clearly the connections and complications that come from being around people.
In my empty head. I like to say your name when you’re not here. I feel it tighten in my chest as I pull you out of thin air. I remember when you used to say that it’s time that complicates you. I remember it like it was yesterday. Fill me in on all of your secrets. Tell me what you’re thinking.
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bend + expose + absorb
I think that this past year, like my front step, has slowly been sinking.
And the year, like my front step, has underlying conditions that are hidden from me.
Its remarkable how I am able to imagine purpose for the broken things around me. And in some ways I remain oblivious to the sinking feeling because of this.
And because there is a canyon of cloudfilled space between what I know and what I truly understand. I am trying to take in broad swaths of material that eventually I will review and try to decompose and deconstruct and likely reconstruct in the next year after the past year and a half.
My phone is full of photos.
Some are purposeful and some seemed purposeful at the the time but since time is no longer a reliable marker in my day, volume and assorted geotags serve as reminders of where I have been and maybe where I could return to sometime.
It’s funny when I consider the thousands of photos that I have taken in my iPhone’s lifetime, all with coded identifiers of place and time and memory, and so few of the places will I ever return to.
Despite the digital breadcrumbs that trace my travels I rarely circleback and return to the pictures or the sites where they were captured.
REsist + impede + annoint
Some things that I have noticed recently:
My front step has sunken. Nobody hates dandelions anymore. People wear masks while driving alone. Purple flowers outnumber humans 1 000 000:1. Taking a shower is a sign of hope. Children don't laugh and run and scream in the park. The longest takeout lines are mostly filled with lonely looking people. Though I barely drive my car, gas prices still piss me off. I feel this constant low vibe of nostalgia. Languish is the most beautiful sounding ugly word. & Last year the step was fine, this year not so much. I suspect that there are underlying issues here. Aren't there always?
Often my spouse will have worries. She will ask me- Do you worry about X? No? Why don’t you worry about X?
I don’t have a transferrable or translatable answer. Me saying ‘just because’ only confuses. But in truth I do not worry about anything that I do not have direct control over.
I can’t make that make sense outside of my head.
There is so much right now that I do not want control over.
behold + admit + comfort
When I need someone to express my thoughts and feels for me, I know that Andrea Gibson has already put pen to page and drafted out my mantras and mental medicine.
Returning to her writing is at best a meditative practice. At worst, it is that screaming hockey coach ensuring that I feel inadequate.
I often feel as if I could be the rough copy for her polished pieces.
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